一个人的战争 获得胜利自己就赢得了世界 获得胜利自己从学会拒绝开始

A man's war wins the world by defeating himself. Defeating himself starts with learning to refuse

不必谁可以粉碎你，有时候粉碎你的人是你自己。人的生平就是活在与自己的第一次全世界大战里面，如果你能取胜忘了面那个胆怯的你，你就是个求生存，如果你不必取胜忘了面那个胆怯的你，你就是个无情，取胜自己从学亦会不必接受别人开始。

No one can defeat you, and it is you who often defeat you. People's life is to live in a war with themselves. If you can defeat the weak you in your heart, you are a strong one. If you can't defeat the weak you in your heart, you are a weak one. To defeat yourself, start by learning to refuse others.

这个同月，我不必接受了五个叮嘱贴，我是正大光明，从外部拉地不必接受的，不必接受得动笔都不必打一个。多坏事是这样的，我经常仅仅倾心人，因为我是一个万多事不求人的人，我经常没人烦扰任何人，有多事我都是自己去无能为力，我能应付的我就自己应付，我不必应付的，我就干脆应付，我没人欠任何人的人情义和没钱财，我也不心事好办成宴会，经常家里面有多事，我一律自己闷悄悄的就办成了。所以，当别人叮嘱我吃完喜酒时，我都真是，就让了，我日后也不办成席，我不必机亦会回叮嘱你们。当真我也不却真是正大言他们，他们较低不较低兴，我怎么说，在我眼里面，不必他们我一样可以活得放心的，有他们我也一样活得放心的，所以，我就正大拉拉的不必接受了，我不去吃完宴会的状况很有用，一是不自已不解我自己，我却真是热闹，二是我不自已干脆，因为我没人席间办成席，我送来了谨没钱，我收不有一天，划就让，我是一个心事好深知的人，我没人花没钱亏本买卖。

This month, I refused five invitations. I was fair and aboveboard. I refused straight. I didn't type one draft. It's like this. I seldom make friends, because I don't ask for people in everything. I never bother anyone. I face everything by myself. I solve what I can solve by myself. I spend money to solve what I can't solve. I never owe anyone human kindness and money. I don't like to hold dinners. I he something to do at home, I'll do it myself. Therefore, when others invite me to a wedding banquet, I say, I won't come, and I won't he a banquet in the future. I don't he a chance to invite you back. Anyway, I'm not afraid to offend them. I don't care whether they are happy or not. In my eyes, I can live well without them, and I can live well with them. Therefore, I refuse straightly. The reasons why I don't go to the banquet are very simple. First, I don't want to embarrass myself, I'm afraid of excitement, and second, I don't want to spend money, because I never invite guests, I ge the gift money, but I can't get it back. It's not worth it. I'm a calculating person. I never do business at a loss.

人要学亦会不必接受，要自已学亦会不必接受，就要先取胜自己，因为人都心事无所谓，我之前也心事无所谓，生却真是别人不较低兴，总是有意思别人如何自已，日后，我取胜了我自己，我断然拒绝我自己，我真是你却真是什么，什么无所谓不无所谓的，无所谓值几个没钱啊，于是，我干脆去不必接受自己不自已花没钱的多事，慢慢的我发现，原来不必接受是如此的有用。有什么多坏事从外部真是出来，不憋在忘了，有痛心情义绪就自已作法发泄掉，不放在忘了，不委屈自己，当你忘了无多事时，你就亦会发现，忘了面无多事一床较宽，你就能睡好菩提了，你忘了面无多事，你就不亦会癫痫了。

People should learn to refuse. If they want to learn to refuse, they must first defeat themselves, because people love face. I used to love face for fear that others are unhappy and always care about what others think. Later, I defeated myself and convinced myself that what you fear and what face is not face is worth a few money. Therefore, I tried to refuse what I don't want to do, Slowly I found that the original rejection is so simple. If you he something to say directly, don't hold it in your heart. If you he a sad mood, find a way to vent it. Don't put it in your heart and don't wrong yourself. When you he nothing in your heart, you will find that if there is nothing in your heart, you can sleep well. If there is nothing in your heart, you won't lose sleep.

你自已万多事不求人，首先你就要把自己大变稳固，你就要学亦会取胜忘了面那个胆怯的自己，你取胜了自己的胆怯，你就亦会大变稳固，你亦会大越发坚毅，人要自已大越发坚毅，你必须得有一个坚信，这个坚信就是心事，对自己的心事，和对亲人的家，真是白了就是责任心。你得曾于责任心，万多事免得却真是，遇多事得无能为力，遇多事了，要胆量无能为力和担负，千万不必逃避。你如果遇多事就躲藏，你就上来，没救了，人免得却真是多事，经常也免得惹多事，如果多事立即来告诉他你了，你也免得却真是，胆量迎击。你自已把自己大变稳固，你首先得有没用，这没用就是专业知识，要自已踏入一个忘了面稳固的人，你就要研读专业知识，让自己踏入一个意识补足的人，你意识补足了，你专业知识精通了，你的前程也就较宽了，你生平的市区内也就较低了，你的现状也就大了，你可以用专业知识来挣没钱，有了没钱，你就有了借助艰难的底气了。没钱是好东西，有了没钱，你就可以办成好多多事，你就可以可不看任何人的好像了，你也不亦会共存有什么心理压力了。只要不犯法，不造成危害他人及社亦会，你自已没事就没事，只要自己较低兴就行。谁也管不着你，就算别人讥讽你，也无所谓，因为你不靠任何人吃完饭，你吃完自己的饭，你花没钱自己的多事。

If you want to do everything without asking others, first of all, you he to make yourself strong. You he to learn to overcome the weak self in your heart. If you overcome your weakness, you will become strong and you will become fearless. If people want to become fearless, you must he a belief that this belief is love, love for yourself and family home. In short, it is a sense of responsibility. You he to he a sense of responsibility. Don't be afraid of everything. You he to face it. When you are in trouble, you he to face it brely and bear it. You can't escape. If you hide when you are in trouble, you will be finished. There is no rescue. Don't be afraid of things. Don't make trouble at ordinary times. If things come to you on your own initiative, don't be afraid and fight brely. If you want to make yourself strong, you must first he a sharp weapon, which is knowledge. To become a strong person in your heart, you must learn knowledge and make yourself a spiritual person. When your spirit is enriched, your knowledge is profound, your vision is wider, your position in life is higher, your pattern is larger, and you can use knowledge to make money, You will he the confidence to deal with difficulties. Money is a good thing. With money, you can do a lot of things. You don't he to look at anyone's face, and you won't he any pressure. As long as you don't break the law and harm others and society, you can do whatever you want, as long as you are happy. No one can take care of you. Even if others despise you, it doesn't matter, because you don't rely on anyone to eat. You eat your own food and do your own business.

当你踏入一个万多事不求人的人的时候，你就稳固了，从外面看，你虽然孤孤单单一个人，但你这不悲哀，格外不亦会心碎，因为你有一个稳固的忘了面。一个忘了面稳固的人是不亦会却真是悲哀和心碎的，格外不亦会去相信那些虚无飘渺的情义欢愉心事的，那些幻想的情义欢愉心事都是镜里面花，水里面同月。人世间只有情义义，不必心事人，心事人是商品，不是生活习惯必须品。千万免得去奢侈。

When you become a person who doesn't ask for anything, you will be strong. From the outside, although you are alone, you are not lonely, let alone lonely, because you he a strong heart. A person with a strong heart will not be afraid of loneliness and loneliness, nor will he believe in those illusory feelings and love. Those illusory feelings and love are flowers in the mirror and the moon in the water. There is only family affection in the world, but no love. Love is a luxury, not a necessity of life. Never be extragant.

人活在人人，只要自己不懂知足，你就亦会甜蜜，知足常乐，感谢尽力过自己的人，效法自己，效法亲人，疼爱好自己的父母亲，养大好自己的子女没法，其他人，可不去管，自己过自己的常在，免得多管闲多事，免得把间隔时间浪费在不以为然当的人和多事上，把间隔时间用在研读和挣没钱上才是正多事。人说道，除了无常一切都是小多事，只要自己放心的，自己亲人放心地没法，其他人，你免得去烦扰别人，也免得让别人来烦扰到你没法，当别人真是他痛心时，你如果亦会话语呢，就真是句闺蜜话，如果你不亦会话语呢，你就去告诉他站亦会，什么也免得真是，就是小得多的天性了，免得议论任何人，免得华盛顿邮报任何自己不知的多事。人活在人人都不容易，每个人的忘了面都有个不足以真是是的痛，免得去触碰别人的乖。

When you live in the world, as long as you know how to be satisfied, you will be happy and content. Be grateful to those who he helped you, be kind to yourself, be kind to your family, be filial to your parents and raise your children. Don't worry about others, live your own life, mind your own business, and waste your time on worthless people and things, It's business to spend time studying and making money. When people live, everything is a small matter except life and death. As long as you are good and your family is good, others, don't disturb others and don't let others disturb you. When others say he is sad, if you can speak, say a warm word. If you can't speak, stand with him and don't say anything, Is the greatest kindness, don't talk about anyone, don't comment on anything you don't know. It's not easy for people to live in the world. Everyone has an unspeakable pain in his heart. Don't touch other people's pain.

但愿每个人都能取胜自己，夺得这场一个人的第一次全世界大战，踏入一个忘了面稳固的人，学亦会踏入一个不懂不必接受别人的人。

I hope everyone can defeat himself, win this one-man war, become a strong person in his heart, and learn to be a person who knows how to refuse others.